I wanted to share with all of you some really great news! Because of the nature of this news we have had to be very subtle of our reactions and how we share this news, but everything in me wants to SHOUT it from the roof tops.
Our Chameleon's Spina Bifida has had many difficult challenges for us. We have had moments of frustration, sadness, and sheer exhaustion, but also some moments of teaching, learning, and building character within all of us. From the time that he was just a newborn and had to have surgery on his tiny little spine, the doctors told us to expect it to take much longer for him to potty train. Bathroom issues have been the biggest obstacle for him and for us as parents. We have found things that worked such as the suppository every morning, the catheter on a 2-3 hour schedule throughout the day, and the daily pills he takes to keep from having accidents between catheters.
He did potty train late, but has Always had to wear a pull up to bed. I have silently been concerned about his future. I have questioned (in my own head) 'will he have to wear pull ups when he is married one day?' So I started looking into options of cloth diapers for older kids and adults. Not much luck. The one or two places that I did find, they still look like a diaper and could still be embarrassing. This has been much more of a concern to me than I have let on, simply because there was really nothing we could do about it.
About two weeks ago, our son asked if he could try going to bed without a pull up that night. We made sure that he cathed right before bed and had nothing else to drink. Everyone was relieved when he woke up dry. The next night we tried it again with reluctance. Again he woke up dry. So our good news is that he has gone just over two weeks without wearing a pull up and has woke up dry every morning!!!! YAY!!! He is still on a schedule with his catheter and at times does have to be reminded when it is time, but I have been noticing for a while now that when he does miss a scheduled Cathe., he is still able to feel that he has to go before he has a major accident. He has several times gone to Cathe without being told or reminded to do so.
So the good news is that my little boy is not just growing up, but maturing inside and out! His body, his emotions, his attitude, everything about him is now PRE-TEEN. And I am so very proud of him. This may go without saying, but please don't mention this to him and there is no need to congratulate him on these improvements. I am basically letting you all know this so that my swelling heart doesn't explode with being so extremely proud of this progress.